[Annotatie]: Do you experience your voice as a blockage? Does your voice change according to the situation youre in? This book provides an answer to why your voice doesnt always seem to be in your control.[Inhoudsopgave]: Foreword by Lotte van Lith v Introduction vii Part 1. Voice and 11 1. Vulnerability 13 1.1. The Origin of Stage Fright 14 1.2. The Inner Critic 16 1.3. Your Vulnerability is Your Strength 17 2. Safety 19 2.1. The Polyvagal Theory 20 2.2. Four Means of Expression 29 2.3. How You Can Regulate Your Nervous System 32 3. Personal Growth 37 3.1. Struggling to Adapt to Society Seeking Acceptance 38 3.2. Discovering My Voice... and Its Vulnerabilities 39 3.3. Reconnecting to CreativityLetting Go of Everything Else 42 3.4. The Tumultuous Years After Seizing Agency 44 3.5. Reconnecting with SocietyOn My Own Terms 46 3.6. Dbrowski and His Theory 47 3.7. Re-relating to Creativity and Voice 50 3.8. What TPD Has to Offer for the Time We Live in Now 52 4. Developmental Potential 55 4.1. Nature | The First Factor 57 4.2. Nurture | The Second Factor 62 4.3. The Third Factor 69 5. Overexcitabilities 73 5.1. What Is Overexcitability 73 5.2. Your Voice as Vulnerability and as Strength 76 5.3. Taking a Closer Look at the Sensitive Nervous System 87 6. Transformative Inner Forces 91 6.1. Unilevel vs. Multilevel Dynamisms 92 6.2. The Unilevel and Multilevel Development of Marvin Gaye 99 7. Emotions 109 7.1. Our Evolving Understanding of Emotion 110 7.2. Emotions as the Source for Values 120 Part 2. Work with Your Voice on a Deeper Level 123 8. Breathe 125 8.1. How Voice and Breath Are Connected 125 8.2. The Right Way to Breathe 129 8.3. Other Benefits of Healthy Breathing 133 9. Feel into The Body 139 9.1. Confidence is a Physical Experience 139 9.2. The Basics of Body Awareness 141 9.3. Building Confidence 147 10. Make Sense of Your Emotions 151 10.1. Read Your Bodys Cues 152 10.2. Become Introspective About What You Feel 154 10.3. Accept What You Feel 155 10.4. Dont React, Regulate 156 10.5. Identify Your Unmet Needs and Values 159 11. Step Back from Your Thoughts 165 11.1. Dont Think While You Speak 165 11.2. What Are Thoughts? 167 11.3. Three Senses of Self 174 11.4. Show Your Enthusiasm and Engagement to The World 176 11.5. Values as a Gateway to Feelings 178 12. Become Self-awareThen Transcend the Self 183 12.1. How Developing Awareness Helps the Voice 183 12.2. Contemplation 193 12.3. From Contemplation to Moral Development 198 Appendix Two Extra Exercises 203 1. Take the Musicians Approach 203 2. A Contemplation Exercise in Interconnectedness 205 Acknowledgements 209 Notes 211 Index 215[Flaptekst]: Voice mentors the self-examination of our voice and the related emotional processes. Once you get to know yourself, become increasingly self-aware and acknowledge your vulnerabilities as well as your talents, your voice and your message will become more powerful. As a result, you will build self-confidence, express yourself better and be heard. Do you experience your voice as a limitation or a blockage? Do you feel that you are not always being heard? Does your voice change according to the situation youre in? This book provides an answer to why your voice doesnt always seem to be in your control. Voice coach Laura Stavinoha struggled with stage fright from the age of fourteen. In this superb book she shares with you the knowledge she gained in the field of vocal development. She explains her own experiences and those of her clients within two theoretical frameworks: the polyvagal theory and the theory of positive disintegration. The exercises she offers are practical, down to earth, and will contribute to your personal development. Laura has found her voice, and offers you a guide to do the same. When all eyes were on me, tension went to my throat and my voice started trembling. I wanted to speak with confidence and have a more powerful voice in presentations, during meetings and in groups when telling a story. Laura has helped me to understand what holds me back, how my voice works and how I can reconnect with it. - Kim (one of Lauras students)[Promotie]: Voice mentors the self-examination of our voice and the related emotional processes. Once you get to know yourself, become increasingly self-aware and acknowledge your vulnerabilities as well as your talents, your voice and your message will become more powerful. As a result, you will build self-confidence, express yourself better and be heard. Do you experience your voice as a limitation or a blockage? Do you feel that you are not always being heard? Does your voice change according to the situation youre in? This book provides an answer to why your voice doesnt always seem to be in your control.